You are in my Digital Garden.
Life
Last modified: Sep 11th, 2026
General advice
- Almost everyone I’ve met would be well-served thinking more about what to focus on
- How to be more agentic
- All good advice is obvious, the hard thing is taking the obvious advice - SMBC
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- Essentially: it’s your skills that matter
Relationship advice
- Live Near Your Friends
- How to Live Near Your Friends
- “Maximize serendipity” - from screenshot of locked Substack post
- Five wholesome, algorithm-free tips for cultivating a rich(er) social life
- Scar Tissues Make Relationships Wear Out
- Looking for Alice
- No, You Shouldn’t ‘Date ’Em ’Til You Hate ’Em’
Issues
- The Third Place is going away
- The information-action ratio is very high
- Culture-bound mental illnesses
- Social media is causing teen mental illness